an Anglican bishop in England, notes that in our relentless quest for pleasure, we use sex to dull the pain from loss, evil, and change. As a result we lack a clear moral framework for facing the issues. He writes: Having decreed that almost all sexual activity is good and right and commendable, we are all the more shrill about the one remaining taboo, pedophilia. It is as though all the moral indignation which ought to be spread more evenly and thoughtfully across many other spheres of activity